Fashion & Beauty: Cultivating A New Me
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notquiteisraeliEvery so often, I decide to give myself a bit of a makeover.
At 43, as a newly married woman, and starting training in a new profession, I felt it was time for a change. And the retail therapy aspect didn't hurt, it must be said. Now, I've been cultivating my skin care routine for a few months now after getting out of it in the wake of the war, but I've finally found a makeup look that works, too. And as for clothes, well...it goes without saying that skip this entry if such things bore you.
Skin Care: I have a relatively simple and inexpensive skin care routine. Per dermatologists a simple routine is actually a good thing; it makes you more likely to do it regularly. Mornings I cleanse, tone, put on moisturizer with SPF, lip balm with SPF, and sunscreen wherever I have exposed skin. Then I'm good to go if I'm not doing makeup. Night time I cleanse, tone, do eye cream with retinol, face and neck and chest cream also with retinol, a lip mask, and hand cream. If I've worn makeup, I double cleanse with Pond's Cold Cream and then micellar water. For my body, I use a moisturizing shower gel and in-shower body lotion that I put on my wet skin and simply towel dry. Works a treat and completely possible with inexpensive products.
Makeup: I usually don't do makeup, but I am attempting to wear everyday makeup more. It's a pretty minimal approach: concealer, tinted moisturizer, eyebrow gel, mascara, and lipstick. Usually the lipstick is one of those your-lips-but-better pinks, though if I'm feeling a little more daring I might wear plum or red. If it's a special occasion I'll go a little more - foundation and blusher, eyeshadow, and a bolder lip - but we're talking a wedding or something here.
Clothing: Don't expect anything hugely bold here. My trousers - that aren't jeans - are neutral shades (black, gray, light brown, navy blue). My blouses tend to the demure - florals, stripes - and are mainly in neutrals and pastels when in solids. (I do have fun t-shirts, but these are for casual days and the gym.) I have cardigans, a jean jacket, and a lightweight blazer. I have skirts (one black, one green with a floral print). I have three dresses (navy blue, light purple, and black with a paisley print). I have plenty of socks in gray, black, and khaki as well as sheer, nude knee-high stockings. I have Blundstone boots, navy blue Chuck Taylors, black Adidas Sambas, two pairs of flats (black and nude). I think that's plenty to pass as a professional adult. I don't think it would do to teach lessons in lounge pants and a t-shirt that says "We're All Mad Here." I'm back to covering my hair; though oddly my hair has started growing in thicker. Still, I love the look of scarves. Not giving it up. It's a great way to add color to my outfits.
Fragrance: I fell in love with Jo Malone London colognes years ago. Now I have several. Scarlet Poppy Cologne Intense is as close to a really heavy feminine perfume as I'll ever get. Peony & Blush Suede and English Pear & Freesia are the kind of light floral I realized were best for me when I was a teenager. Orange Blossom is light and citrusy - it reminds me of the time I picked a clementine from a tree. Wood Sage & Sea Salt is a day on the Atlantic Coast, and Silver Birch & Lavender is an autumn hike in the North Country. Yeah, these all make me happy.
All told I'm happier with my more mature image, though I hack around the house in pajamas, regularly go to the makolet (think a bodega) to buy smokes in the aforementioned lounge pants and fun t-shirts, and go to the gym in sweats and fun t-shirts or else a swimsuit coverup. Oh, and Crocs. The above clothing and makeup is for when I can be arsed to give a fuck.
At 43, as a newly married woman, and starting training in a new profession, I felt it was time for a change. And the retail therapy aspect didn't hurt, it must be said. Now, I've been cultivating my skin care routine for a few months now after getting out of it in the wake of the war, but I've finally found a makeup look that works, too. And as for clothes, well...it goes without saying that skip this entry if such things bore you.
Skin Care: I have a relatively simple and inexpensive skin care routine. Per dermatologists a simple routine is actually a good thing; it makes you more likely to do it regularly. Mornings I cleanse, tone, put on moisturizer with SPF, lip balm with SPF, and sunscreen wherever I have exposed skin. Then I'm good to go if I'm not doing makeup. Night time I cleanse, tone, do eye cream with retinol, face and neck and chest cream also with retinol, a lip mask, and hand cream. If I've worn makeup, I double cleanse with Pond's Cold Cream and then micellar water. For my body, I use a moisturizing shower gel and in-shower body lotion that I put on my wet skin and simply towel dry. Works a treat and completely possible with inexpensive products.
Makeup: I usually don't do makeup, but I am attempting to wear everyday makeup more. It's a pretty minimal approach: concealer, tinted moisturizer, eyebrow gel, mascara, and lipstick. Usually the lipstick is one of those your-lips-but-better pinks, though if I'm feeling a little more daring I might wear plum or red. If it's a special occasion I'll go a little more - foundation and blusher, eyeshadow, and a bolder lip - but we're talking a wedding or something here.
Clothing: Don't expect anything hugely bold here. My trousers - that aren't jeans - are neutral shades (black, gray, light brown, navy blue). My blouses tend to the demure - florals, stripes - and are mainly in neutrals and pastels when in solids. (I do have fun t-shirts, but these are for casual days and the gym.) I have cardigans, a jean jacket, and a lightweight blazer. I have skirts (one black, one green with a floral print). I have three dresses (navy blue, light purple, and black with a paisley print). I have plenty of socks in gray, black, and khaki as well as sheer, nude knee-high stockings. I have Blundstone boots, navy blue Chuck Taylors, black Adidas Sambas, two pairs of flats (black and nude). I think that's plenty to pass as a professional adult. I don't think it would do to teach lessons in lounge pants and a t-shirt that says "We're All Mad Here." I'm back to covering my hair; though oddly my hair has started growing in thicker. Still, I love the look of scarves. Not giving it up. It's a great way to add color to my outfits.
Fragrance: I fell in love with Jo Malone London colognes years ago. Now I have several. Scarlet Poppy Cologne Intense is as close to a really heavy feminine perfume as I'll ever get. Peony & Blush Suede and English Pear & Freesia are the kind of light floral I realized were best for me when I was a teenager. Orange Blossom is light and citrusy - it reminds me of the time I picked a clementine from a tree. Wood Sage & Sea Salt is a day on the Atlantic Coast, and Silver Birch & Lavender is an autumn hike in the North Country. Yeah, these all make me happy.
All told I'm happier with my more mature image, though I hack around the house in pajamas, regularly go to the makolet (think a bodega) to buy smokes in the aforementioned lounge pants and fun t-shirts, and go to the gym in sweats and fun t-shirts or else a swimsuit coverup. Oh, and Crocs. The above clothing and makeup is for when I can be arsed to give a fuck.
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Date: 2024-03-20 10:39 am (UTC)I've always liked Noxema as a facial cleanser. My mom swears that her friend looks young because she used it...though I probably am not using it often enough to reap the youthful-looking benefits.
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Date: 2024-03-25 03:54 pm (UTC)That being said, I think a lot of celebrities try to gaslight us about aging well (J. Lo tried to tell us that looking like she does at 54 is down to olive oil and a joyful heart...yeah right). I just do what my dermatologist recommends (and recognize that being able to see one is a Good Thing).
It took me awhile to get to doing it every morning and night. Now I look forward to it as kind of a moment of mindfulness.
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Date: 2024-03-26 12:51 am (UTC)Hahaha, 'joyful heart' must be the name of her cosmetic surgeon...
Seriously, though, having a good self-care routine is an excellent thing. I find when the Depression Clown starts knocking on the door, a little self-care goes a long way in driving it off.
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Date: 2024-03-27 01:41 pm (UTC)I splorfled. You win the internets today.
It can be difficult to keep up the routine when the Depression Fairy/Migraine Fairy comes around - but it does make a huge difference.
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Date: 2024-03-28 10:05 am (UTC)nods Even though I work from home, it's one of the reasons I still try to keep up daily maintenance. I neglected to do so for a short time while unemployed and started to feel myself sliding down....